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"be my little girl" =/
Replies: 17Last Post June 19, 2009 9:38am by tell me again
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i'll be frank.
i'm 13 and...lately my dad has been....doing some things.

he's been touching me. innappropriately. and threatening me and making me do things to him. and i've been wetting the bed ever since he started, which was about a month ago.

he keeps saying. "why cant you be a good little girl. be a good little girl and make daddy happy, like when you were younger."

and he keeps yelling at me for wetting the bed.

and treating me like i'm...literally two.

i'm too scared to go to an authority figure, and lately it's been getting to be even twice a day....

how can i first tell a friend, exactly in exact words, so that they can help me on where to go with this? what should i say to my best friend.....


and no my mom's...out of the picture


2:35 pm on June 16, 2009
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call the cops

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you should tell your friend your dads being weird or ask him/her if they're noticing it and then go into detail when they ask

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Please tell your mom, or aunt, uncle, teacher anybody.

PM me.

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Tell your best friend the exact same thing you've told us.

If you want, don't include the wetting the bed part.

But you really need to tell someone x

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You need to come right out and say it, that your father is doing inappropriate things to you. She should catch on right away, and if she doesn't, she'll eventually guess.

Why are you afraid to tell the police? They'll help. If your dad's doing this, and claims to have been doing it when you were younger, chances are he's doing it/has done it to other kids as well.


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Quote: from WillFail at 2:37 pm on June 16, 2009You're an assshit I smell fake from the get go.  

 
but if it is don't be a cucking funt and call the dog gamn police already

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you.
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who needs to swallow fucking GLASS.


2:38 pm on June 16, 2009
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Quote: from Anonymous at 2:38 pm on June 16, 2009

Quote: from WillFail at 2:37 pm on June 16, 2009You're an assshit I smell fake from the get go.

 
 but if it is don't be a cucking funt and call the dog gamn police already  

 [/quote

 
you.
are a clitmunching fucker.
who needs to swallow fucking GLASS.


I dont agree with HOW he said it but really

letting the authorities know about this and stopping it before it gets worse is your best choice

cause realistically, what is your friend going to do but go to the police himself?

if you just tell him/ her and expect them to keep quiet about it,that's stupid

do this for your mental health and physical health

your father shouldn't be molesting you at all

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just call the police.
you really shouldn't avoid contacting them about a serious issue.
you can trust them.

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if it helps write it in a note and give it to some one you trust...

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okay look, you NEED to go to an authoritive figure, you don't have to say you've been wetting the bed, you could just say its causing you stress and torment.

please, tell someone. at least a friend, and then when your ready you should go to the police. just don't keep it to yourself or it may get worse, and you'd end up some nutcase scarred from an abusive childhood.

please, if you can't stand up to him then tell someone!

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Quote: from Anonymous at 2:38 pm on June 16, 2009

Quote: from WillFail at 2:37 pm on June 16, 2009You're an assshit I smell fake from the get go.

 
 but if it is don't be a cucking funt and call the dog gamn police already  

 [/quote

 
you.
are a clitmunching fucker.
who needs to swallow fucking GLASS.



NO U


and if you're for real then fucking call the police it's not that hard.
Really.

Just go get the phone right now, post another thread and update us while you do it if it makes you feel better.

it'll be out of your hands and you wont have to worry anymore.
okay?

do it.
do the damn thing.
you can fucking do it,
he wont' know til they get here,
he won't hurt your family,
or you,
you'll be okay.



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I remember you posting about this before, and telling your friend is a great option. I hope you're telling your friend in hopes that he is going to help you tell someone higher up. You're still very young, and I would hate to see you go through this any longer than you already have. Understand that things are definitely going to change. I have a few questions to ask that are pretty private, so I would like you to PM me, because that will make helping you easier. You don't have to, but I would appreciate if you did.

But anyway, in exact words, you tell your friend "I need to tell you something really important because I need your help. My dad touches me in really bad ways, and I don't know what to do anymore. Its been getting worse, and I really want help so it can stop."
And from there, the conversation should just flow.

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you have to tell someone, an adult or just best friend, but please dont just stay there letting him abuse you like that.

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